Rethinking a Digital Detox in a World That Never Stops Buzzing
Digital clutter isn’t just what’s on our screens. It’s the steady drip of notifications, pings, and “just checking” moments that quietly fragment our attention and wear down our nervous system.
In revisiting Cal Newport’s Digital Minimalism, I’ve been reflecting on how many tools, apps, and services I’ve adopted with good intentions, only to realize that their cumulative cost often outweighs their individual benefits. This isn’t about rejecting technology. It’s about reclaiming choice.
A digital reset doesn’t require drastic change. It starts with noticing what actually supports what matters, and what simply adds noise.
Why I Added a Five-Minute Pause to My Day (and How It Helps)
I realized that starting the day well wasn’t enough. I needed another touchpoint to reset—something that could support me in the middle of it all, not just the beginning.
Why Your Comfort Zone Needs a Little Pressure
There’s nothing like being outside your comfort zone to wake you up.
Sometimes it’s small. Ordering food you cannot pronounce. Wandering off the tourist path and realizing you are fully in unfamiliar territory. You cannot coast in these moments. You have to pay attention.
Other times, the stretch is bigger. Speaking a language you do not fully know. Sitting with uncertainty and staying present anyway. You listen more closely. You adapt as you go.
This is where growth actually happens. Not through dramatic leaps, but through light pressure applied at the edge of what feels familiar. Each small stretch builds confidence in your ability to handle the unknown.
Your comfort zone does not disappear when you challenge it. It expands. Touch the edge, and it moves.
The Smallest Change That Can Still Change Everything
Wanting something new does not mean you need to blow up your life to get it. The smallest change—anchored to real life—can be the one that actually sticks. Not because it’s dramatic, but because it respects your energy, your rhythm, and your reality.”
Intentions, Not Resolutions
In this week’s post, I share how I’ve replaced traditional resolutions with something more sustainable: intentions.
I still care about outcomes. But I’ve learned that goals tend to be rigid, while intentions offer direction. They help me stay rooted in values like creativity, health, and presence—without the all-or-nothing pressure.
I talk about using mind maps, carrying little intention cards with me, and setting daily “how I want to show up” reminders. It’s not perfect. But it’s grounded. And it’s helping me stay connected to what really matters this year.
Looking Back to Leap Forward
In Looking Back to Leap Forward I revisit a practice I used to do every December: creating a simple mind map of what mattered to me. I found one I made in 2011 and was struck by how much of it still shows up in my life today — creativity, connection, work that feels meaningful. The piece is about noticing what hasn’t changed, and changing the way you relate to the questions that keep circling back.
Holiday Lights and Christmas Memories That Mark the Season
A personal reflection on Christmas memories, holiday lights, and traditions that still bring warmth and nostalgia during the Christmas season.
Contentment is Not a Feeling; It's a Collection of Decisions
My definition of contentment has radically changed. It’s not a destination; it's a collection of small decisions that consistently tilt life toward ease instead of tension.
Beautiful Things That Happen When You Remember Life Doesn't Last Forever
When you embrace the reality of life’s limits, you start living more intentionally. Here are 5 beautiful shifts that happen when you stop taking time for granted.
You Don’t Need One Big Passion to Redefine Midlife
“Find your passion” sounds inspiring... but sometimes by your 50s it can feel like a burden. What if your next chapter didn’t start with a flaming spark but with a gentle question: What matters now?
I’ve worked with many professionals who spent decades in one role, and now the pressure to “turn passion into profit” is the wrong starting line. Instead, what actually works: curiosity, low‑risk experiments, values alignment.
If you’re in that space and you’re wondering how to move forward without pressure, start small. Try something. Notice how you feel. Decide from there.
Midlife Isn’t a Crisis—It’s a Call to Build Your Own Board of Mentors
Discover how creating a personal board of mentors can help you navigate midlife transitions, clarify purpose and thrive in your 50s and beyond.
The Beautiful Subtraction of My 50s
What if happiness in midlife isn't about adding more—but subtracting what's no longer needed? One woman’s journey into space, simplicity, and self-trust.
7 Signs You're Ready for a Midlife Pivot (Even If You Don't Feel Brave)
Not sure if it's time to make a change—or just feeling "off"?
Midlife pivots don’t always start with bold moves. Sometimes they begin with quiet questions.
Here are 7 signs you might be ready for a shift—even if you're not feeling brave (yet).
The Lie of the Golden Years: Time to Rebrand Retirement
Retirement isn’t an ending — it’s a redesign. This blog explores why midlife reinvention matters more than ever.
Two Types of Stress. Only One Sends Obvious Signals.
One month, three health surprises—and a lesson in the stress I didn’t know I was carrying. Here's what I learned about invisible stress.
Let Yourself Fall: A Midlife Invitation to Stop Bracing and Start Moving
Rediscover forward momentum in midlife by embracing small falls and trusting your next step.
5 Benefits of Working with a Coach During Midlife Transitions
Feeling stuck in your 50s? Discover how working with a coach can help you find clarity, confidence, and purpose during life’s big transitions.
Rebuilding Your Social Life After Work: A Guide for Midlife Transitions
When the daily chats, hallway laughs, and shared routines suddenly stop, the silence can be heavier than expected. Whether you’ve retired, relocated, or shifted into a slower pace, rebuilding a social life takes intention—but it’s absolutely possible.
The Power of Self-Awareness and Mindset in Life’s Next Chapter
Discover how self-awareness and mindset help you navigate midlife transitions with clarity, resilience, and purpose. Your next chapter starts here.
A Week of Journaling to Clarify What’s Next
Feeling stuck or in transition? This 7-day journaling practice helps midlife professionals reconnect with what matters and imagine what’s next.

